Visit to Australia

Well time is moving fast as it’s been a few weeks since I tapped out a blog post. My last blog saw my big sister head home in mid October and since then, I’ve been up to lots of fun things including a short trip back to Australia. But before the photos of me eating everything in Australia, my first adventure was a flying lesson. My good friend AH is keen to learn to fly and we agreed to take a ‘discovery’ flying lesson. This is a one hour flight where you get to learn the basics and get some hands on the stick for a while to see what it feels like. We also agreed to back seat in each other’s flight so we got a little more air time. We flew in a little Piper aircraft and it was quite a buzz really. It was pretty noisy and little bumpy due to the low cloud cover that day. Unfortunately we didn’t get to touch the controls – not sure why? But we were both excited and thrilled to feel the experience of flying. I have had a fear of flying for many years now so this was a little challenge for me but like most fears, the ability to control the situation reduces the fear so flying the plane myself (well the pilot in this case) didn’t seem to scare the crap out of me. I was overwhelmed by all the dials and could not understand a word on the radio from air traffic control. It sounded just like the McDonalds drive through people – shhhk blkjdfjsdkl sdfkjsdklj theolji kejjekjre….

From here, we both plan to start flying lessons for our Private Pilot’s Licence and finish it in Australia as we probably won’t have the time or money to do it all here. The hours and training are transferable so we hope to get started in January. It felt good to be surrounded by technical things and the chance to think like that again with pilot training is quite exciting for me. Stay tuned for some great stories as the flying adventure unfolds next year.

I also did a 10k run on Veterans Day – our Armistice Day 11 Nov. I ran with my friend AH again and he unknowingly pushed me (as I tried to stay with him) and managed to run just under the hour. I have not done this in over 20 years so it was a blast for me. It was a bloody cold morning start but I somehow cracked out some quick k’s and thought I’d go for as long as I could hold it. Somehow, I made it to the end and beat the hour. Pretty pleased with myself and a well deserved breakfast out and afternoon nap was my reward. Thanks AH for the PB.

Just before flying to Australia, the results of Australia’s survey on Marriage Equality were announced. Many of our US friends were shocked that gay marriage was not legal in Australia, yep we still have the convict ball and chains on in many issues. After much bullshit and political and religious propaganda, Australian’s were asked to tick yes or no in a marriage equality survey – that was NOT binding on our politicians to support once the results were in. Yes, I did say it was a bullshit process. After 80% of Australians responded, 62% of Australians said YES, they wanted marriage equality (32% NO). Incredible. I was cooking dinner here in DC and watching ABC on the internet as the results were read live in Australia. I was quite emotional at the result to think that finally, gay people had taken a major step forward in equality despite the majority of politicians not having the courage to do the right thing years earlier.  So, as of 8 Dec 17, Australia legalised marriage equality. It disgusts me how both the Govt and the Opposition are trying to take credit for this achievement and while they say they are not, they really are. I only have thanks to those who have fought for this equality for years despite it not being politically popular, despite it not being what the political party stance is but because it was the right thing to do. Well done Australia, I am thankful the support was there and the one benefit of this bullshit survey process is that the arguments can end now – the numbers speak for themselves. Australia says YES. Marriage equality brings legal rights to us that we have never enjoyed – many Australians fail to know or understand that – we did not have those rights that many married people enjoy. Now, we can.

The real major news for this post is that I took a quick trip home to Australia to see some friends and family. I went on my own so the journey seemed to take forever. It’s a bloody long way and a bloody long time on a plane. As soon as I was in the boarding queue at Dallas for the Qantas leg to Sydney, I immediately felt at home. I was listening to the Aussie chat and banter and loved hearing the older guys in front of me being dickheads – just typical Aussie larakins really. The flights were good and I arrived in Canberra feeling like a bit of a stranger really. I managed to visit our house and was pleased to see it was in great shape and caught up with our lovely neighbours who we miss dearly. Food was clearly on the agenda so I was enjoying bacon and eggs and coffee at every opportunity and my dear friend MB spoiled me with good food and drink. She was brave to let me drive her car and while I did drive ok, it was a mental challenge at times to stay left at exits, driveways and intersections.

I managed to get some chores done including getting a Carpet 101 lesson at Harvey Norman in preparation for carpeting our house when we return. Who knew that carpet could be so complicated !! And I didn’t even look at colours – just carpet types. And most exciting was my trip to TAFE to check out the cooking school and discuss the possibility of doing chef training when I return. Good news is that chef training is definitely possible and it is now my goal for when we get home. Very excited.

It was great to see my family up North and the weather was totally gorgeous and tropical. I ran most mornings and it was around 30 degrees C despite being 8am. I was definitely on a food mission for this trip and the first day saw me indulging heavily. It was my Dad’s birthday so we enjoyed pies and sausage rolls for lunch and some sweet treats – apple slice, vanilla slice and a long jam cream donut. Fantastic – we stopped by Phelan’s Pies who are long time favourites at home. The owner was only too happy to get my photo with him and I starred on their facebook page as a visitor from DC hungry for a good Aussie pie.

 

My niece finished building her house recently and it was fantastic to see her new home (and first home). She now joins the rest of us in mortgage bliss but at least it’s hers even if she only owns the front door at this stage. My dad was eager to show me his computer skills having played on my sister’s old computer for the past two years. He was interested in how to print but I said he first needed a printer so I decided to buy him a printer for his birthday. When I got home and looked at hooking it up, I then decided it was just too painful to use his old computer and Noah needed it back on the Arc so I treated him more and bought an iPad for him. Despite his initial grumbles, he was pretty taken with it when I came home and gave him a quick overview. After a few training lessons and some handy info sheets I made for him, he was surfing the net a lot easier and now able to access his email, take photos and even facetime me. I have created a little monster I’m sure but he was getting the hang of things quickly and it will be so much easier for him, and us, when he has questions. The first morning he was already reading the local paper when he asked, how do I get to the funeral notices. A few swipes and taps later and there they were so we saved it to his favourites – can’t say I’ve seen funerals as favourites before. I set up his world clock with Washington DC time and said he could use this to check the time before he thought about facetiming me. Had to laugh though, I was on the journey back to the US when I was walking in Dallas aiport, my phone was ringing, it was Dad facetiming me. I’m not sure if it was me or him that was shocked to see the other on the phone. He said he pressed the wrong button !!  We had a quick chat anyway but it was good to see him on the screen.

My sister, niece and I went cruising down the Strand on the weekend like all local chicks do. I miss the weather so much and have been putting the pressure on Deb to retire somewhere warm – much warmer than Canberra. We had lunch and then went to a good local fish and chip shop called Harolds where they sell real (not frozen) potato scallops (or potato cakes for those Victorians). I also bought a Chico Roll. After dosing in salt, we sat on the grass and took a trip back to the 70s eating these deep fried Aussie favourites. For the foreigners, a potato scallop is a slice of potato dipped in batter and deep fried. A Chico Roll is hard to explain but it’s a meat and cabbage and carrot mush in a thick chewy savoury pastry that is deep fried. It is the food of champions and brings back memories of the drive-in and Friday night fish and chips. Hopefully the photos will give you more insight but the taste is quite yummy even though it’s a heart attack in a roll.

 

 

I had a spare suitcase with me to fill with food and gifts so we filled the trolley at the supermarket with bags of lollies, weetbix, TimTams, passionfruit tins, chocolate and some Pascalls marshmellows for a good friend. I bought some Aussie gifts for friends but one of note was an Akubra hat. This would be my challenge to get home without losing it. More to come later on that one.

After a few lovely days with my family, I spent the last day visiting my niece at work and having lunch with my sister. As always, a tearful goodbye only interrupted by me losing my sunglasses. Have no idea where or how, but I’d lost them at lunch, nowhere to be found. Well they were scratched so good excuse for a new pair. I seem to lose them a lot – my last pair was lost at a tollbooth in Croatia a few years ago. Fell out of the car door when I opened it to pay a toll. I had another hour with Dad for some last minute iPad training before we loaded my bags into the car and headed to the airport. As I was checking in, I realized I’d left my Australian phone at home on the lounge. Shit, not enough time to get it but no problems, I will only turn it off when I get back to the US anyway. So that was the 2^nd thing I lost. No problems, at least I had that Akubra hat in a bag with me. Another tearful goodbye with Dad and then off to Sydney for a late night flight and stopover. 

I arrived at the airport hotel late and facetime’d my sister for a quick hello. I was telling her I’d arrived and was scoffing at how I’d lost my sunnies, left my phone at home and that I wonder what the 3^rd thing will be as things happen in three’s. I laughed and said I’ll probably lose that bloody hat. At that instant, I flashed my head to my bags and said SHIT (or probably F$#@ really) – I had left the bloody hat at the aiport !!  Gotta go sister and I hung up, rushed downstairs to get a taxi back to the airport. I could not bloody believe it. When I collected my bags, I stopped by the hire car counters, put the hat bag on the counter, bent down to get my wallet out of my carry bag, stood up and walked away with all bags except the hat, which was on the counter top. I dashed into the airport baggage area and thankfully, there it was sitting on the counter where I’d left it. I think I was lucky as it was late at night but clearly security were not in action that night as it had been nearly an hour. Oh bloody hell, that bloody hat. I’m glad I found it. For the rest of the trip I tied the hat bag to my carry on luggage so I would not lose it again. It made it safely back to the US with me and I have yet to give it to my friend who is quite excited about getting an Akubra.

My time at home was short but really great. It made me very homesick which took me by surprise. I’m not sure why it hit me hard but I came back to the US feeling relieved it is only one year to go before we return the Australia. It’s hard to believe it’s been two years already but there is no place like Australia, no place like home. No matter how far, or how wide I roam, I still call Australia, home. Bless Peter Allen for making this classic song an Australian theme.

I was hit with jetlag back in the US and caught the obligatory cold from being stuck in a plane for 20+ hours. I think being homesick didn’t help either but jetlag emphasizes everything. It’s been nearly two weeks back now and I’m mostly over the jetlag and kicked the cold. We’re demolishing the weetbix and working hard to ration the chocolate. The cold weather has set in and we enjoyed our first snow for the season, yesterday - Saturday. Like kids waiting for Santa, we tend to get up through the night looking out the window to see if it’s snowing. It came in the morning and snowed most of the day. Pretty special stuff really. I am prepared this winter with a tarp to place on the grass for an area for the dogs to pee. They do not like pee’ing on snow and Cricket prefers the lounge chair leg inside!!  So, I remove the tarp at toilet time to reveal the grass and it’s an instant success.

 On a final note, I finally saw Justice League with all the superhero’s in action. Deb went nextdoor to see Murder on the Train as the ticket chick said instead of Orient Express. Deb managed to fall asleep in the middle she said, not sure how much of the middle she slept? But I was glued to the superhero’s and totally enjoyed the movie. I loved the Flash – he made the movie I think. Not quite the normal superhero but he made me laugh. Not sure I liked Ben Affleck but I still loved the movie and will probably watch again at some stage.

Christmas is 2 weeks away and the houses are decorated in lights and now fresh snow so it’s definitely looking a lot like Christmas as the song goes !! We are going to see some Xmas lights this week and I want to see the White House Xmas tree again before Xmas. Time to pull out the ugly Xmas sweaters and get excited about eating the Xmas Puddings I brought home in my suitcase full of Aussie goodies. 

A few final pics of the snow and a xmas tree in my dreams....full of bikes !!!!